Thanks for taking the time to read my story, I am hoping from sharing my story, there will be people outthere, that can relate to my feelings and what I have experienced and give you the strength to take the next step.
Ever since I can remember I have struggled with my weight. I will always remember being a normal sized child until I had my tonsils out, or that is what Ican remember to be the case anyway.
Since then I guess like most people, I have tried to do most of the diets, including WW, SW, Atkins etc etc.
I have even been down to my goal weight at times, but guess I am easily lead and piled the weight on.
About 3 years ago my doctors sent me to the local weight management clinic,but if I'm honest I sat there thinking I know what to do, but its just doing it. I lasted about 3 visits, and then decided to call it a day.
It was only at this point that I decided enough is enough and went to my doctor and asked for help, I was offered tablets and I said I think its gone to far for that, I think I need help with surgery, if i had the money, I wouldn't think twice of going private.
So in the end they decided that was an option and they referred me. The doctor rang me a few weeks afterwards and said we have a letter back from the hospital but its bad news. Due to my BMI and me not having sleep apnoea or diabetes, they wont put me on the list.
So what's the options then doctor, I said. Well lets send u away for tests for sleep apnoea as you don't have diabetes and then we can see what comes back.
So a few weeks letter and a few tests, and now I am diagnosed with sleep apnoea. So we appealed and now I am on a waiting list.
I have had my first appointment, and now have my second batch on the 7th March 2011.
I just feel it is important to share my story because there is help out there,but you have to go and find it.
Especially being a guy, there's a lot of chat rooms etc, but mainly full of females, so I hope this blog helps both males and females, and I would love to here your comments below.
Gary, I think this is a fantastic idea, especially for many people who are just taking the first steps into this emotional rollercoaster of jumping all the required hoops. I am now 18 days post bypass, but it has taken me two years to get to this stage, with a lot of tears and heartache as well as soul searching. I have been overweight or super morbidly obese as they like to call me, since the age of five after having Thrombocytopnea and was put on steriods. I gained about 2 stone in a month and also gained a huge appetite. For the next 42yrs I have been on diets and bingeing and guilt vicious circle.
ReplyDeleteWLS not only effects those brave enough to enlist, it effects their families and friends Not all of are lucky enough like me and had the support of from their loved ones and friends.
This is never undertaken lightly and at least friends and families can also read these blogs and learn more from everyones experiences. No two people experience the same journey pre and post op and we all need friends who can help and advise us along the way.
Make sure you show your friends and family these blogs and comments if they are having trouble with your decision.
Hi Gary I am Tracey's friend and wanted to wish you good luck in your journey.
ReplyDeleteWeaknesses to areas of life is within us all whether it be with food exercise alcohol gambling or spending to much on the credit cards
Finally having the courage to say enough is enough is hopefully all the will power you and Tracey will need to meet your goals head on and succeed.
Good luck stay strong and focused.
Regards Aj